tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22009816.post116180916724320541..comments2023-10-14T07:29:39.735-07:00Comments on Anywhere but here: Stereotypically Stereotyped (?)Wanderlustinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05997835666384194750noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22009816.post-1162197304037469552006-10-30T00:35:00.000-08:002006-10-30T00:35:00.000-08:00Let's say that the "Stereotype" that men want sex ...<I>Let's say that the "Stereotype" that men want sex all the time, isn't true.<BR/><BR/>Well... is it?</I><BR/><BR/><I>All</I> men want sex <I>all</I> the time? 'Course not. Forget about getting headaches, <A HREF="http://knobular.blogspot.com/2006/10/hui-xian-ii.html" REL="nofollow">some men actually prefer sports</A>, gadgets, studying the feeding habits of the Lesser Indonesian Dung Beetle...knobbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14096864684038570932noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22009816.post-1161906354035249742006-10-26T16:45:00.000-07:002006-10-26T16:45:00.000-07:00The fact of the matter is, that in the linked blog...The fact of the matter is, that in the linked blog, the girl was feeling so inadeqaute about her guy's desire for her, that she has to go elsewhere for it.<BR/><BR/>Though I don't condone it, I also understand that. If a woman doesn't feel desired by her guy she WILL go to others to get the attention she is seeking. Does a guy have to make her feel lusted after all the time? No. <BR/><BR/>BUT at the same time, it should happen naturally. If you are lacking desire in a relationship, whether its after a few months or a few years, and you have to seek it elsewhere, maybe it's time to get a new relationship where you are feeling as desired as you should be.<BR/><BR/>One of my Ex- "lovers" didn't seem to give a hoot about sex one way or the other. Though I loved him, I NEEDED the lust and desire that he didn't provide for me. <BR/><BR/>I had to break up with him. It was hard because we were so good together in other ways. But now I'm with a guy who can't keep his hands off me, who rocks my world day and night and the "love-making" is nothing short of pure passion. If I had stayed with the other guy, I would have never known what a great sex life is truly like.<BR/><BR/>Maybe I'm one of the lucky ones.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22009816.post-1161895629488692962006-10-26T13:47:00.000-07:002006-10-26T13:47:00.000-07:00Personally, I hear of this happening too AND exper...Personally, I hear of this happening too AND experience it from time to time.<BR/><BR/>What I think it is, in part, is that women these days are a lot more freer when it comes to sex and now they know if they feel like it, they CAN innitiate it and not feel like some crazy, sex-crazed lady.<BR/><BR/>Claven: Women aren't not "programmed" to accept the instinct? Maybe the women you are with....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22009816.post-1161893044552046132006-10-26T13:04:00.000-07:002006-10-26T13:04:00.000-07:00If the dude CONSISTENTLY isn't interested, then so...If the dude CONSISTENTLY isn't interested, then something's wrong. But the stereotype is more or less true. I've found that its true for the liz-zadies as well. Y'all are just programmed to not accept the instinct. Acknowledge, move on.Clavenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00246090203659922862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22009816.post-1161885033005191252006-10-26T10:50:00.000-07:002006-10-26T10:50:00.000-07:00I once got cut off for 6 months...found out later ...I once got cut off for 6 months...found out later it was because he was banging some slutty whore. <BR/><BR/>Anyways...uhh...yeah, people should just have sex with the person they are with and enjoy it and wear costumes...caveman costumes. And Batman and Robin costumes...uhh...Janellerifichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05354338677149498073noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22009816.post-1161853188774109642006-10-26T01:59:00.000-07:002006-10-26T01:59:00.000-07:00Its hard to get excited if you're with someone for...Its hard to get excited if you're with someone for the comfort factor. <BR/><BR/>I've tried to draw out the reasoning behind this but can't seem to keep it relevant. Suffice to say that a mismatch in sex drive is a symptom of deeper problems. Of course I'm speaking from the single, don't have it offered to me daily perspective...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22009816.post-1161833554511822382006-10-25T20:32:00.000-07:002006-10-25T20:32:00.000-07:00stereotype or no stereotype.. gettin turned down b...stereotype or no stereotype.. gettin turned down by your man is hard for the ego to takeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22009816.post-1161810268975616552006-10-25T14:04:00.000-07:002006-10-25T14:04:00.000-07:00I think it's just a stereotype, like the stereotyp...I think it's just a stereotype, like the stereotype that women are cold prudes who don't put out enough. In the end, people are human. Men get headaches, women get horny.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com